elasmosaurus 3 t rex 9 stegosaurus 6 triceratops 8 parasauralophus 1 dimetrodon 2 allosaurus 2 styracosaurus 4 deinosuchus 1 maiasaurus + 2 babies spinosaurus 1 jurassic park 3 pterodactyl 2 mosasaurus 1 plateosaurus 1
Hayley was being a dog when I got to Kathy's; she had her cat tail on (she was a cat at Halloween), and she was eating pieces of bread from a bowl on the floor. She has always liked pretending to be animals.
Hayley was in a pretty cranky mood, as was Kathy; they had been
sharpening their claws on each other all day, apparently :-) Hayley
didn't want to take a bath. Then she would take a bath, but only if
Kathy gave it to her. Kathy was on the phone with a friend of hers,
and didn't want to sit in the bathroom with us. Sigh. Finally Kathy
got off the phone and came to sit in the bathroom for a few minutes;
after that she decided to go out, despite Hayley's protests, so I
tried to calm her down. I tried singing to her, but she didn't want
to hear Clementine or Dublin, the only two songs I could think of at
the moment. I asked her what song she *would* like to listen to.
"Make one up" she said. "Make it about how Mommy is a dwee for
wanting to go out now." So I made up a song to the tune of
Clementine, something like: "In a house, in Pawtucket, lived a woman
and her daughter..." "No, no, nothing about me!" said Hayley.
"Ok... In a house, in Pawtucket, lived a woman and her... her...
refrigerator."
"Ok, do you want me to wash you or do you want to wash yourself?" I
asked Hayley. "Neither." "That's not an option." "I want nobody to
wash me." "Well, if you don't wash yourself, I'll wash you." I
started to get the soap. "No! I've already washed myself." "No you
haven't, Hayley, don't lie." Hayley smirked. "Yes I have." More
firmly: "Hayley, really, it's not nice to tell lies." Disapproving
look. She sighed. "Ok, I'll wash myself."
We played a few computer games, first I played a bit of Prince of
Persia 3D while she watched and helped, then we switched to her
Rugrats game, then to Dragon in a Wagon, where she played the quiz.
She knew most of the answers, though some perplexed her, such as
"which part of the train is the cowcatcher?" She was very surprised
that cows would be on railway lines, but I explained about the big
plains in the middle of the country, and how cows might well wander
onto the tracks. How fast were the trains going when they pushed cows
out of the way with these things, I wonder --- did the cows get hurt?
I'll try to find that out later.
Then she drew a picture with the Dragon in a Wagon painting program, a
cute picture of a sea with a boat (clipart) and a smiling moon (done
with a paintbrush). Unfortunately we can't save or print these
pictures, one of the few poor features of this game. While she was
drawing, I read the beginning of The Horse and His Boy to her. It
kept me occupied, and she could half-listen while she drew. I'm often
surprised at how big her vocabulary is; I started to explain
"crimson", but she told me she knew what it was. I asked her what the
difference between a medal and a medallion was. A medal is something
you win, a medallion is a coin. One word in The Horse and His Boy
that she asked me about was "indigence". "Hmm. I don't know what
that means, actually; let me look it up... It means being very very
poor and having nothing at all."
She's lying in bed now. I heard a little sound from her. "Did you
say something, my love?" I asked her. "No." I was curious: "Did you
sneeze?" She laughed. "No, I said 'chipmunk' because I was making up
a story."
Hayley is getting very into the latest craze: Pokemon. They are
saying on TV that Furby will still be bigger than Pokemon this year,
but Hayley doesn't think so. She says that there are only forty or
fifty different kinds of Furby, but there are a hundred and fifty
different Pokemons.
She gave me a belated birthday present: 8 Minute Abs and Arms, an
exercise tape. We tried it out, with Kathy helping us by telling us
what we were doing wrong --- Kathy takes a lot of exercise classes, so
she knows this stuff very well.
After that I definitely needed a bath :-) Hayley and I took a bath
together; Kathy thinks Hayley is getting too old for that, but I
disagreed, and Kathy accepted. I think in general that americans are
more puritanical about things related to sexuality, so this kind of
difference between us is fairly common; we try to compromise.
I have lent some of Hayley's games to her teacher to try out, so I
brought over some ones that we hadn't tried in a while.
Dinosaur Hunter, made by DK
Multimedia, is a really extraordinary program. It is a virtual
reality museum, an idea I find excellent; in fact, one of my
long-term-projects is to build a virtual reality programming museum.
You move around, with eery music in the background. There are podiums
with pictures of dinosaurs and text about them. There are various
sorts of games; for example, one we played shows six dinosaurs, a T
Rex, a triceratops, etc. It also shows track marks for them, and you
have to guess which match with which. When you get a match, it pops
up a window with some information about the dinosaur. We took the
lengths and figured out how big they would be in terms of Kathy's
apartment; a Brachiasaurus would be twice as long as the apartment is
end-to-end. I like seeing Hayley visualize things like this. One of
the exhibits we passed talked about a place in Australia where they
have found a site where a very large predator caused about a hundred
and fifty small plant-eaters to stampede; they have figured this out
from tracks left in the mud, and then fossilized.
I would highly recommend this program for anyone interested in
dinosaurs.
Another game we tried again was one my father sent Hayley for her
birthday last year. It is called "Dragons!", and is published by
Oxford CD-ROM. We didn't like this game much the first time we tried,
and this time was no different. You kind of wander around, and there
are mildly entertaining animations, but really nothing of any
interest. I'd give this one a miss.
Hayley beta-testing a game I wrote.
Hayley is really enjoying the virtual reality dinosaur hunt; it is an
excellent program. We wandered around the museum a bit and saw a very
scary-looking head sticking out in one place; it was a megalosaurus. We
compared the megalosaurus to various other dinosaurs (and to a person)
to get an idea of size, and read various things about them.
I read to Hayley from her Arabian Nights tales (by Enid Blyton); she
likes these stories a lot. They are remarkably convoluted, often with
stories inside stories inside stories. Hayley wanted to be reassured
that genies were imaginary, and we talked a bit about which parts of the
story corresponded to reality (fishermen, people, dogs, etc) and which
corresponded to imagination (genies, people turning into dogs, etc).
24 sept 1999
Tonight I went over and spent the evening with Hayley. She had
macaroni and cheese and I had baked beans on pumpernickel. She told
us that sometimes at recess some of the girls in her class play a game
that they won't let Hayley and Valerie play. We tried to work out
with her what the problem was, but it will take some more work.
She gave me a belated birthday present: 8 Minute Abs and Arms, an
exercise tape. We tried it out, with Kathy helping us by telling us
what we were doing wrong --- Kathy takes a lot of exercise classes, so
she knows this stuff very well.
After that I definitely needed a bath :-) Hayley and I took a bath
together; Kathy thinks Hayley is getting too old for that, but I
disagreed, and Kathy accepted. I think in general that americans are
more puritanical about things related to sexuality, so this kind of
difference between us is fairly common; we try to compromise.
I have lent some of Hayley's games to her teacher to try out, so I
brought over some ones that we hadn't tried in a while.
Dinosaur Hunter, made by DK
Multimedia, is a really extraordinary program. It is a virtual
reality museum, an idea I find excellent; in fact, one of my
long-term-projects is to build a virtual reality programming museum.
You move around, with eery music in the background. There are podiums
with pictures of dinosaurs and text about them. There are various
sorts of games; for example, one we played shows six dinosaurs, a T
Rex, a triceratops, etc. It also shows track marks for them, and you
have to guess which match with which. When you get a match, it pops
up a window with some information about the dinosaur. We took the
lengths and figured out how big they would be in terms of Kathy's
apartment; a Brachiasaurus would be twice as long as the apartment is
end-to-end. I like seeing Hayley visualize things like this. One of
the exhibits we passed talked about a place in Australia where they
have found a site where a very large predator caused about a hundred
and fifty small plant-eaters to stampede; they have figured this out
from tracks left in the mud, and then fossilized.
I would highly recommend this program for anyone interested in
dinosaurs.
Another game we tried again was one my father sent Hayley for her
birthday last year. It is called "Dragons!", and is published by
Oxford CD-ROM. We didn't like this game much the first time we tried,
and this time was no different. You kind of wander around, and there
are mildly entertaining animations, but really nothing of any
interest. I'd give this one a miss.
We played velcro darts, gradually moving the line we threw from
further back. Each of us wrote down the scores the other made, which
gave Hayley some practice with her digits, which she often writes
backwards. A little later she asked for something to do, and I
suggested she practice writing digits, from 0 to 9. She agreed, and
asked me to grade each one with the ABCDF grading system (which she
carefully explained to me :-) She took three rounds to get all As, at
which point she was satisfied.
We parked on the East Side and
took the trolley down to the waterfront; the trolleys look like
old-fashioned trolleys, and sound like them (they ring a big bell
periodically) but they don't run on tracks.
Hayley is still very shy in crowds. She was pretty shy even at the
birthday party we went to earlier today, with other kids not much
older than she was. Kathy had brought Hayley's bike in the trunk, but
when I started to get it out, she became frantic:
I asked Hayley and Jessica if they would like to try a computer game I
wrote. They thought this sounded fun, so I started perquackey for
them. Jessica hadn't used a touch-pad before, so she was a bit clumsy
with that at first, but she soon got the hang of it. Both she and
Hayley had a very hard time finding words from the letters, even on
the easiest setting, though there were many words that they knew.
Eventually I started telling them words, and helping them spell them
out. English spelling really is baroque. Plaits. Good grief :-)
Jessica said to me: "you're very creative. You should sell this game."
I'm trying :-)
They are divided into "tribes" in their camp; each tribe picks its
name and I think makes up a song. Hayley's tribe is the "Bouncing
Bobcats".
Hayley is getting remarkably good at hoola-hooping; she can keep it up
for a minute and a half sometimes. I can't manage more than four or
five seconds, but as Hayley pointed out, maybe I need a bigger hoop
:-))
We played in the yard with Jessica, an eight-year old who often comes
to visit her grandmother, who lives above Kathy and Hayley. Jessica
seems like a really nice kid; very amiable but still strong-willed,
amongst other things. Hayley and Jessica play a lot together, but
quite often Hayley will want Jessica to play in some way that Jessica
doesn't want, and Hayley will end up crying (mostly in frustration, I
think). It breaks my heart to see her devastated, but it's hard to
take too seriously when the issue is whether someone touched first
base or not :-)
I gave her a bath --- it's amazing how much dirtier she gets at camp
than at school --- and then read her some more of the Lion, the Witch
and the Wardrobe. She seems to be liking the Narnia chronicles a
lot. When we got to the part where the children and the beavers are
expecting to hear the Witch's sled pulled by reindeer, they instead
hear another sled pulled by reindeer. Who could that be? I asked her
-- shrug, blank look. He had a red suit and a big white beard.
Santa Claus! I don't think I found Santa Claus out of place when I
first read the Narnia chronicles, but I think if I had first read them
as an adult I would have.
We played in the yard for a bit yesterday, as it was a really nice
day. First we skipped for a bit; Hayley isn't too great at skipping
yet --- she could usually only do four or five skips before failing,
but she was much more good-humoured about it than I expected, which is
great. Perhaps school is helping her in this regard. We also played
baseball a bit; she still has some trouble swinging the bat, but
manages to hit the ball quite often (we tried with a little plastic
baseball, but ended up with a medium-size beach ball).
We have been playing Myst a little; Hayley likes the music and
pictures, and the general idea of exploring, but we haven't got very
far yet.
I gave Hayley a bath, and she gave her doll a bath; this provided a
good bargaining point to get her to wash her hair --- I told her that
she could wash the baby's hair with shampoo if she washed her hair
first. After she had washed her hair I squirted a tiny dab of shampoo
into my palm and held it out for her to take and put on the baby's
head. Instead she dunked the baby's head in my palm like it was a
cheese-dip, which made us both roar with laughter.
I read Hayley one of her Pooh books at bedtime; it wasn't one of the
AA Milne ones, but written by someone else. When I pointed this out
Hayley was quite surprised, and wondered how the other person had
known about Pooh. I told her that presumably he had read AA Milne's
books.
My mother looked after Hayley while I went to work, and had some
entertaining stories afterwards. They were playing a rugrats game
which involves balancing plastic coins on a wobbling tower. Each
person spins a spinner that indicates where on the tower to put the
coins and how many to put on. If any
coins fall off during your turn, you keep them. Each player starts
with ten coins, and the first to get rid of all their coins wins.
Apparently when Hayley had added some coins and the tower looked like
it might shed a few, she would urge my mother to spin, spin! At
another time while my mother was adding coins Hayley started singing.
My mother asked her why, and she answered "because sometimes noise
makes them fall."
Hayley was very surprised at one point to see drops of water falling
slowly from the roof (we had a heavy snow that is melting), and she
exclaimed "slow rain!"
At one point Hayley was playing on the floor in the kitchen, and my
mother turned the vacuum on behind her, thinking Hayley would be used
to it (a foolish assumption :-) Hayley was so scared she literally
jumped onto the table (a low kids table), and cowered there on all
fours! This reminds me of an entertaining story when she was two and a bit
Today Hayley was a wolf, or a fox, at different times... I was
supposed to be a 7-year old who was scared of wolves and foxes, and the
7-year-old's mother, who would explain that wolves and foxes didn't
usually hurt people. She made herself a den by rearranging the couch
cushions, and periodically I would discover the den and be scared by
the wolves in there. Apparently it wasn't actually her own den; it
belonged to some tarantulas who were renting it to her. At one point
I heard her discussing the rent payment with the tarantulas; $25 seemed
like a pretty good bargain.
We went outside to shovel the snow in the afternoon. It is very light
powdery snow, good for making snow-shapes, for the first time in
ages. After shoveling the snow from the sidewalk into the yard, we
started to make a snow-castle in the yard, though we only have a base
so far. I say we, though really I was the one making the castle ---
Hayley spent the whole time delightedly gathering handfuls of snow and
throwing them at me. The snow was so fluffy she got most of it back
on herself, but she didn't seem to mind this.
I have been clearing out some storage cupboards, and I came across an
exercise machine I got a few years ago. I don't remember how to use
it myself, but it turned out to be a great mini jungle-gym for Hayley;
we set it up so there was a bar she could swing herself around on. I
am a bit concerned about her lack of athleticism; she doesn't like
swinging herself around on the bars at the gym at her school, for
example; she says it makes her feel sick. I said that it did give you
a funny feeling in your stomach, but it had never made me feel sick.
She won't let me swing her upside-down, and won't even sit on my
shoulders any more, as she is too scared. I think part of the problem
is just that because I don't see her that much, we haven't had enough
time for the usual rough-and-tumble that kids get in a two-parent
family. I have been trying to do more outdoor things with her, but it
is often hard to get her to go outside, especially with the kind of
weather we have had --- too cold to be out for long, but not enough
snow to have fun with.
Here is a book Hayley made with Imagination
Express a few weeks ago. Here is the text (I am just transcribing the
text for data for a vocabulary graph I hope some day to make).
Page 1: Learning about Whales.
Page 2: Whales can get pinched by crabs but they do not care.
Sometimes they can even get pinched.
Page 3: Sometimes dolphins stick their fins up too high. This means
they are getting some air into their body. If they stick their fins
down low it means they are getting cold air into their body.
Page 4: Sometimes the whales grow a little too big for their oceans.
But they sometimes go to another ocean. Of course, it has to be bigger.
Page 5: Sometimes the crabs run away from their parents.
Page 6: When the baby dolphins are first born, if it's just one, they
stay near their mother or their big sister. Or, if two are born, then
they stay near each other.
Page 7: The End.
She is eating her dinner as a dog, naked, with her plate of cheese and
tomatoes and crackers on the floor, with a bowl of beans, and her
drink in a bowl also. It doesn't make for very efficient eating, but
whatever.
She just came trotting in (on all fours) with a cracker in her mouth
to play in the living room while she eats. If she was with me all the
time I would insist on a bit more decorum, but I figure she gets
enough of the standard family values at Kathy's house. I don't think
it really spoils her to let her let her imagination loose.
On Friday is a father-daughter dance at her school; it will be her
first formal dance :-). At first she was hesitant about going, but
then she decided she definitely wanted to go, as most of her friends
were. We went to get her a dress for it the other day; she looks
adorable, clunking around in her slightly high heels :-)
We've tried some new games lately, but not great ones. I bought her
"Let's Go Read", and she likes some parts of it, but some are
dreadfully boring. We have had problems with the sound cards and this
game, too.
Jak
11 Dec 1999
We had a bit of a battle of wills this morning. I came over to Kathy's
and started to do laundry. I asked Hayley to come down and help me,
but she didn't want to. So I asked her to come down and keep me
company. She didn't want to do that either. So I told her that if
she didn't do things that I wanted to do, I wouldn't do things that
she wanted me to do, like play Prince of Persia with her.
She waited until I was nearly done, and then stood at the top of the
stairs. I told her that didn't count as keeping me company, and she
came down a few stairs. I said that still didn't count, and she
wouldn't come any further. By that time I'd finished putting in the
laundry, so no Prince of Persia today :-/
September 1999
24 sept 1999
Tonight I went over and spent the evening with Hayley. She had
macaroni and cheese and I had baked beans on pumpernickel. She told
us that sometimes at recess some of the girls in her class play a game
that they won't let Hayley and Valerie play. We tried to work out
with her what the problem was, but it will take some more work.
October 1999
I was reading to Hayley tonight, and she asked me what "coiner" meant.
I explained that some people made coins that looked like real ones, and
used them as money. A little later she said to me "Some people make
fake coins for kids to play with, I've seen them in CVS" I started to
tell her that that was different from forging coins, but I hadn't got
more than a couple of words out when she said "I know", and I knew she
knew what I had been going to say. Moments like that are really
wonderful.
I think you might have birthdays in heaven, but you don't get any older
September 1999
Sunday, 26 September 1999
Friday, 10 September 1999
Today I came over to look after Hayley while Kathy went shopping for
things for Hayley's party tomorrow. I remembered to bring the laptop,
but forgot to bring any games... Fortunately Hayley was happy to
play perquackey, which I did have. It is interesting playing with
her. I set the time limit to an hour so there is no time pressure,
and put it on the easiest setting. Then we roll the dice, and I think
of words, and give her hints, like "a colour", she found "red". "When
a wagon rolls through mud, it makes?" She didn't know the word. "a
rut". Back in the old days, sometimes when people got into big
arguments, they would settle the argument by standing back to back,
each with a gun, walk twenty paces, then turn and shoot at each
other. Do you know what that is called? It's a duel.
Someone suggested that the hints for perquackey could be the
definitions of a word, instead of a partially-elided word. That seems
like an excellent idea to me.
It might be nice to have levels of rarity for words, so that one could
play with dictionaries of easy words or harder words.
Wednesday, 8 September 1999
I looked after Hayley this evening while Kathy went out with a friend.
At first Hayley was very upset that Kathy had left, and kept
repeating that she wanted her mommy, and refusing to do anything I
asked her to or to listen to me. Eventually she barricaded herself in
her room and cried for a while. I decided to behave as if nothing was
wrong, so I put some music on, and ran a bath. I told her I was going
to take a bath. "I don't want a bath!" "No, *I*'m taking a bath."
"Oh, ok." Sure enough, a few minutes after I had got into the bath,
she came shyly in, wrapped in her blanket. "Can I take a bath with
you?" Two birds with one stone :-) We had a bath together and then
we cooked some pasta. While it was cooking we played a bit of The
Playroom, an excellent computer game. The part we were playing was
the Mousetrap, a snakes-and-ladders type game. There are huge numbers
of variations on this game, but they are all based on a path divided
into squares, from the start to the goal, with certain squares jumping
you ahead some number, and certain squares moving you back a certain
number. Usually these games are played with a roll of a die, but in
this version, you roll three nine-sided dice and choose which to
play.
Hayley is testing my memory. She tells me that she is going to
explain about a game she wants me to write for her, and that it starts
with "you choose four horses -- I'll tell you the rest tomorrow". It
doesn't matter if you forget, I can tell you again. If you have a lot
of things on your mind, you'll probably forget, but that's ok. I'll
ask you if you had a lot of things on your mind or if you just forgot.
Sunday, 5 September 1999
I took Hayley to the cemetary to ride her bike today; that was fun.
She is still very afraid of riding; she needs a lot of practice. We
talked about a bunch of things. Hayley explained to me that she
shouldn't ride on the grass because we should show respect for the
dead people in the cemetary. A man was driving around in a car marked
Swan Point Cemetary, and I explained to Hayley that he was there to
stop people from doing nasty things.
H: What nasty things?
J: Well, some people actually dig up graves.
H: Why?
J: Well, they might want to use the skulls as decorations.
H: Why don't they use plastic skulls?
J: Because people prefer real things to plastic things.
H: What other nasty things might people do?
J: They might write graffiti on the tombstones.
H: What's graffiti?
J: Graffiti is writing on walls and things.
H: What would they write?
J: They might write swear words, or the names of sports teams
they like.
H: What are swear words?
J: Swear words are words like "shit" that you shouldn't use in polite
company. Do you know what "shit" means?
H: It means like that a really bad thing just happened, like grrrrrrr!.
J: Right. It also means poop; a lot of swear words came from bodily
functions that people find distasteful.
H: What's the most important organ in your body?
J: Well, I think it's the brain.
H: Mackenzie says that your heart is the most important organ.
J: Well, they are both critical organs -- you can't live without them.
Lungs are also critical.
H: Fish live without lungs.
J: But they have gills; you need something like that to survive. Some
animals have both lungs and gills. Do you know what they are called?
H: Lizards?
J: No, there is a word for all the animals that are like that.
H: Amphibians?
J: Yes, that's right.
August 1999
Saturday, 28 August 1999
Kathy and Hayley and I went to another WaterFire today. We had all been
before, but at this one they had a
human statue,
a juggler on stilts and a bunch of
talking heads that scared Hayley :-)
H: Put it back, put it back!
J: Why?
H: Because! The other kids will laugh at it. It's too foofy! [foofy
is a local expression (afaik) that means frilly, girlish, effeminate]
J: No it's not. Hey, Brandon, do you think this bike is too foofy?
B: No.
J: Ashley, do you think there's anything wrong with this bike?
A: No, but maybe it's a bit small for her.
We talked about bike sizes for a bit, and Hayley seemed to become
confident enough that she rode her bike for the rest of the
afternoon. I saw a similar thing with her dread of taking a Barney
towel to a swimming party; she was convinced the other kids would make
fun of her, though in practice I don't think they would have.
The place where we were is a good place for kids to learn to bike and
skate and so on; it is a cul-de-sac down which no-one drives except
with extreme caution; there are just three houses along it. Hayley
wanted to start riding up-hill rather than down. She was almost, but
not quite, able to pedal up the hill on her own. I'm not sure she
understands how torque is different at different angles of the pedals
yet. At one point one of the people at the party wanted to leave, so
they started up their car; Hayley was terrified of this, and flatly
refused to start riding until the car was gone. Some amount of fear
is good, I suppose, but I think she is a little over-afraid of some
things.
Friday, 27 August 1999
Today I got out of work a bit early and went over to see Hayley.
Hayley and Jessica were playing, and were delighted to have me join
in. They each had troups of dinosaurs, and I selected a half-dozen
young triceratops and a couple of velociraptors. All the animals were
gathered around in a big ring, like at a circus. Jessica took over
one of my velociraptors and made it fight with mine. I did a sort of
Monty Python peasant voice, and tried to get out of fighting, but she
was very determined. Eventually we "fought" a bit and then I made my
velociraptor keel over. Medically savvy dinosaurs were rushed to the
scene, where they just managed to keep the velociraptor alive long
enough to patch him up.
July 1999
Monday, 26 July 1999
Today I picked Hayley up from camp. She is really loving her camp; it
seems to be doing her a lot of good athletically, and I am sure that
it is good for her to spend time with both boys and girls. There is
the (I think unavoidable) rivalry between boys and girls --- Hayley's
latest chant is:
Girls go to college
To get more knowledge.
Boys go to Jupiter
To get more stupider.
Grammar aside, I liked it, but apparently the boys had come up with it
first, and the girls had just reversed the roles :-/
May 1999
Saturday, 12 June 1999
A little while ago I got Hayley a little quiz game called Brain Quest
(1st grade), which consists of two packs of 37 cards, each with five
questions on it, from the categories reading, math, vocabulary, social
studies and science, grab bag; examples are:
Anyway, that's a sample (picked from the cards chosen with "(+ (random
20) 1)" in elisp :-)
It seems like a good game for car-rides, for example. "My favorite
animal" gets boring after a while :-)
April 1999
Monday, 12 April 1999
Hayley decided to alphabetize her computer game CDs. She clearly
understands the algorithm; when the first letters are the same,
compare on the next letters. The land before time activity center
goes before the land before time animated moviebook; she pointed out
to me that the titles were the same, so she used the other words on
the cover.
Wednesday, 7 April 1999
Today I babysat Hayley while Kathy went out with a friend. We played
soccer in the yard for a bit; I explained the basic rules to her,
surprised at myself for not having done so before (I guess we don't go
out very much with balls; we should do so more). We set up a couple
of chairs to make mini-goals and decided on the boundaries. Hayley
wanted the whole available area to be the field, but I wanted to show
her how corners and throw-ins (what are they called?) worked. Her
strategy isn't always very good :-) she will sometimes abandon the
ball and run back to defend her goal for no particular reason. The
goals were so small that with someone in front of them there was no
way to score, so I'd have to lure her out of the way and then sneak
back. We both had lots of fun. I hope she gets some kind of team
game like that at school; this year they have gym classes, but don't
seem to do a very great deal in them.
March 1999
Sunday, 28 March 1999
Here is a watercolor Hayley made a few weeks ago.
Wednesday, 17 March 1999
My mother arrived on Monday for a two-week visit; she hadn't seen Hayley
for three years! I hope I'll be able to take Hayley to Europe soon.
February 1999
Thursday, 25 February 1999
We are having quite a heavy snowstorm, so Hayley's school was
cancelled today. Kathy's work was not, so I arranged to work from
home, and looked after Hayley until Kathy got out. I don't get much
work done while Hayley is here, so I'll be working late again tonight
:-) It's nice to work for a company that is so flexible about hours.
Tuesday, 2 February 1999
I picked Hayley up from school today and we have been making snakes
out of packing foam and tape. Hayley always likes to make families of
things; here there is a mother, a father and four baby snakes.
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